My name is Joseph, and I was hoping to post my opinion so that the rest of your readers can view. I personally see only one thing wrong with what was stated, and that is it had the wrong messenger. Other than that, you women, really need to stop doing everything to get the ring, and nothing to keep the ring. Do not deflect what I am saying, but a rebutable of what men or your man is doing, and just take ownership of what you have control over. Therefore, I charge you not to shoot the messenger but take note to the message.