Love does not hurt. Love does not compromise it's integrity. Love is more than just words, it's the action behind the words. If you have to constantly ask, beg or demand quality time with your s/o then something is wrong & you need to address it.
Lust will cost you more than you are willing to pay & time in which you will never get back. It will leave you in the regrettable state of mind.
Don't sacrifice your wellbeing for temporary satisfaction. Aim higher seek the attainable which is God's will for you.